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HOW TO GET THE SEX LIFE YOU WANT
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Three words guaranteed to destroy any man's ego: "Is it In?"
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three words most hated by men: Are you done?
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words women hate to hear when having sex... "Honey, I'm home!"
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| Building a satisfying
sex life takes work, but as one of the great pleasures of adulthood, it's
well worth the effort. |
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are some words of advice from the experts: |
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your partner know who you are sexually and what you want. If you have history
of letting sleeping dogs lie in the interest of domestic smoothness, you
may have to do some relationship housecleaning to undo old behaviors and
attitudes. No garter belt or sexual paraphemalia is going to change your
sex life if there is no honest communication. |
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| vMove
out of your comfort zone. Achieving the sex life you want requires the
strength to change the rules of your relationship - often with a reluctant
partner. Be willing to tolerate the uneasiness that change brings and don't
back off or attack your partner if he/she doesn't respond the way you hoped
and don't take it as a personal rejection. Fear is a strong motivator to
cling to the status quo. |
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| vLove,
honor and negotiate. Foreplay is more than arousal technique; it's a negotiation
that determines the intimacy, eroticism and meaningfulness of the "main
event" that follows. If you want your sex to be the most intimate thing
two people can do, you had better start during foreplay. Follow the emotional
connection between you to figure out what to do next, instead of focusing
on your technique or standard sexual repertoire. |
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| vStop
having sex with the fantasy in your head, and pay attention to the partner
in your bed. If you want intimate sex, look at your partner and invite
him or her to get lost in your eyes and soul. With experience, you may
reach orgasm looking into each other's eyes during sex. You get there by
repeatedly taking your partner into your mind and heart during intercourse
rather than focusing on orgasm. |
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| Browse Books: |
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Bestsellers |
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New Joy of Sex |
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Laughs : The Naked Truth about Motherhood, Marriage, and Moving On |
| vLight
Her Fire: How to Ignite Passion and Excitement in the Women You Love |
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Bestsellers |
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This is a book about love and
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Light
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