To
keep your sex life as interesting as when you first fell in love, you'll
have to get naked emotionally!
Knowing how to be intimate
isn't something we're born with. We have to learn it like everything
else,
but it's worth the trouble. When couples get naked emotionally and
express
their true eroticism sex gets sexier.
Long-term relationships
provide the most powerful way to discover how to be sexually intimate
and
how to experience truly great sex.
According to sex
terapists,
couples can stroke the sexual fires and enjoy the same delights as the
newly-in-love once they realize it takes special tending,
self-awereness
and a letting go of outmoded notions about sex.
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You have
to push past the fear of rejection to be sexually innovative!
It's frightening to expose
yourself emotionally, to tell the truth about your sexualwishes and
deepest
feelings. It explains why many people pretend not to mind when sex
starts
to wane, why they don't rock the boat. The longer you stay in
relationship,
the scarier it gets because your partner becomes increasingly important
- so it gets harder and harder to do something that risks that person's
rejection. In the end, unsatisfied lovers often clam up because they're
afraid that talking about it might make matters worse. You have to push
past that to be sexually innovative and intimate.
There are
legions of people
who have been shamed and humiliated out of their sexual wishes. Tell
him/her
how you really feel, then offer an alternative, something that turns
you
on.
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