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You
don't have to be perfect to be loved!
In
everyday life we all face situations so complex that no one could
possibly
get them right all the time. When you do something wrong or when making
mistakes, try to admit them and show your partner you know that is
wrong,
because he or she has to be assured of your love and integrity more
than
of your perfection. Sometimes our mistakes can make us feel guilty, and
if it turns out that our guilt is appropriate, than we should change.
Be
careful, because gilt is useful as a motivator to change, but is very
destructive
and useless if paralyzes the person with a sense of unlovability or
unworthiness.
Loved somebody and having someone who loves you is the greatest feeling
in your life. If we are strong enough to forgive and generous to
rejoice
in another's happiness and wise enough to know how to keep what we
have,
then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature, except
human beings, will ever know.
When a man is dating a woman
he is on the hunt and he is completely focused on winning over the
woman
he cares for. He will do whatever it takes to be successful. He will
wrapped
his arm around her when they walked together, look at her and noticed
her
beauty, held her in public, hugged her, stroked her hair and he will do
all sorts of little things for her. He will do all that because he was
not allowed to touch her intimately.
Once he is given the right
to touch a woman intimately, his impulse for non sexual touch is gone.
He touches her when he wants to have sex and she usually feel used.
Having
won her, he relaxes and he touch her only when he wants sexual contact,
because the desire for sexual contact is much stronger than for non
sexual.
After the intense pleasures of sexual touch his impulse for
affectionate
touching may wane and she can't understand that. On the other hand
women
have need for non sexual touch and they may never lose strong need to
be
held and hugged.
Every woman needs compliments
and lots of reassurance that he still finds her appealing.
Woman wants to share her
losses and victories and many little things in life with her partner,
just
to feel close and important to him. Give her ten minutes of your
undivided
attention, let her tell you about her day. Share with her news from
your
own day. Women experience greater intimacy by sharing feelings and
thoughts.
It is very easy to misinterpret
the motives of our partners and begin to feel they don't love us like
before.
When you learn to interpret his or her behavior correctly, with a
little
work together, your romantic feelings can be rekindled, and once more
you
can find man or woman with whom you fell in love.
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